When trauma has occurred in the context of a relationship, relationships themselves can become a trigger. For that reason, it can be hard to date in the aftermath of a bad relationship. That doesn’t mean we don’t want to date, but it can be hard to get to the point where we’re ready. The atmosphere that Valentine’s Day creates can make the healing process a bit frustrating, especially when our close friends are in relationships. But that’s okay! We can be happy for our couple